The proverbial "always a bridesmaid, never a bride". She should definitely get a little more focus. And Maia doesn't need the help to show up a lot; she just won the romance vote, so she'll get screentime anyway.
Hmm. You make a point here... eh, fuck it. Time for my sudden yet inevitable betrayal (in honor of my problematic fave, Deiza).
[X] Amiti
She doesn't really seem to care about being traditional, or seen as childish, but she gets pretty mad when Ambrea calls her unwomanly, so I'm guessing she's trans.
Hm. Taken in the abstract, maybe, but I'm not sure this fits so well with the Realm's accepting attitude re: trans people. Especially since that acceptance is significantly predicated on the Empress' own personal marriage to a trans man back at the dawn of the Realm, and AFAICT based on her rant Deiza's issue is very much tied to Ambraea being a stand-in for the Empress and the Empress being a stand-in for traditional Realm values. And Ambraea is already friends with a trans woman (though, I guess to be fair Deiza might not know that about Sola).
I wouldn't call it
totally out of left field if that turns out to be it, but from what we've got so far I'm pretty skeptical. Especially since Deiza's actual rant doesn't seem to connect to that idea in the least AFAICT:
"Right, because that's really the problem, isn't it? Don't give me that, you don't give a shit about 'unwomanly' — you'd just love it if I were polite and sweet and pliant, so you could condescend to treat me with basic decency. The gracious Imperial daughter, deigning not to talk down to her lessers!
That really seems to be much more some kind of inferiority complex/general chip on her shoulder towards her self-styled "betters" among more conventional Dynasts (such as Peleps Nazri, who we just met and immediately disliked). Ambraea, as the daughter of the Empress herself, would ostensibly be the most conventional and most socially elevated Dynast there is at the school. And Deiza, not really knowing Ambraea, seems to be projecting the attitudes of e.g. Peleps Nazri onto Ambraea as her assumed motive for not jiving with Deiza when really it's not about that at all.
It seems like Deiza simultaneously craves Ambraea's approval - having it would mean a lot for all the reasons not having it stings - but also can't bring herself to actually ask for it in any way. Possibly because what she really wants is the validation of having the Empress' daughter, who is also something of a sorcerous prodigy in her own right (something House Simendor in general cares about deeply to the point that mortal scions of the family who initiate as sorcerers can have higher standing in the house than Exalted who don't), accept her specifically as her unvarnished self with none of what Deiza seems to think of as "suck-up" behavior involved. And then when she's not getting it she's letting her preexisting insecurities and resentment do her assessment of motive for her.
Not the most socially functional behavior by any means, but I also suspect that Deiza is using her abrasive mannerisms and contempt for traditional niceties at least partially as a cover for and psychological defense against just not actually being very
good at conventional socializing. Because it's not rejection or failure if it's because of something you're doing on purpose, right?
...Man, comparing her to Harrow from the Locked Tomb books actually seems like it works even better than I realized when I first said that.