And then the resulting comeback from the Star Trek side, playing the "The Die Is Cast" card for Trek biggatons.
I like both very much, but prefer Star Trek. Still, I always despised using "calcs" when debating, and instead preferred to by the spirit of what we see, which very much appears to be at least rough parity in terms of firepower. I think it's infinitely more interesting to compare HOW the ships are armed, tactics, etc. over trying to do calculations for onscreen visuals which have absolute zero consistency in either. Like, an Imperial Star Destroyer would likely outclass a Galaxy-Class in single combat, just given how heavily armed the ISD is compared to the GCS.
It's at least understandable WHY. People tend to tribalize over everything. It's what we do. "I like this, therefore it's the best".
I don't have SPECIFIC examples, but the "Modern Military Defeats EVERYTHING" crowd I find to be the most annoying. I don't mind stories where the modern military does end up defeating everything... they can be fun... I very much enjoy SG-1.... but it's super annoying when it's like "Future sci-fi battle was stupid because a single SAW would have ended the battle immediately." You do have to account for dramatic effect, but I always operate under the notion that the people in-universe know more than I do about it. I might be able to look and say "Why did they do x thing?" and I might not be able to answer it. BUT... given we are suspending disbelief and this universe is "real", there IS a reason. Might not be apparent to use, but there is a reason.