Did you just quote the post where I listed several more of the nigh-infinite options available to slam me for only posting about libraries? That's.. impressive.
What's impressive is your continued insistence that Everyone Always Has Options La La La The Truly Desperate Do Not Exist.
Like. I slammed you about libraries because, like every other suggestion you make, your suggestion people visit the local library as a be all end all solution is coming from the clearly privileged perspective that the library Exists, Does Not Hate You, And Is Not Otherwise Unusable.
That you then try to twist this into 'lol man nice dunk attempt what a twisting of facts' instead of acknowledging the point that,
like every single suggestion you have made, it quite literally takes it as a given that people have other perfectly good options and are just being lazy whiners if they want to advocate for the site that works best for them to work better for them.
Which has been the seeming underlying stance to you pushing for 'if you don't like it, leave, look at the infinite options you'd already know about if you'd Just Look'. If that's not your intent, perhaps you could clarify what your intent was when you for example blanket dismissed everyone who thinks there's no better option than SV with 'have you even looked?' rather than engaging with the possibility that one might, shock and horror, consider this specific website the single best website for their needs? Like what is even wrong with that, anyways?
I'm not saying the site can or should accommodate the individual needs of every poster. Ultimately, that's not really going to be feasible, or even desired to the extent that taken to the maximum extreme that would technically mean accommodating any nazi posters or whatever rather than actually upholding the site's values.
But when your response to people hoping the site can accommodate them is not to argue that this may not be feasible or that it conflicts with accommodating you, but rather is,
literally, to start with...
Honestly in a case like yours I'd recommend less internet in general. I know it's something of a heterodox opinion these days, but you don't actually have to post anywhere! If there's no good websites, don't use.. any...?
'touch grass'
"Condescending", "berating", all words people like to use when they don't like what they hear but can't refute it. I'm not hearing "you're wrong" here. But fine, if you're hung up on a lack of specifics, here's a whole bunch:
Many web serials these days have associated communities, usually very friendly to whatever stripe of person the story attracts. Many, many of them are far more LGBTQ+ friendly than SV is these days. Much less shy about banning Nazis, too.
If you want largely-unrestricted political debates but with a chilling effect on outright mudslinging or personal attacks, there's always the NationStates forums - they make a point of not banning Nazis though, so caveat emptor.
If you want long form, high content posting there's also older places like SA or QQ or hell, newgrounds(?) though those tend to be pretty set in their ways (read: extremely idiosyncratic). SV would also fit here imo, it's an excellent long form, high-content hangout joint, I'm not gonna tell people to leave either.
This is an extremely partial list just based on what I happen to know of offhand, for the internet is truly vast - for those who say there's nothing as good as SV, have you looked?
Nobody would argue that finding a sense of community on SV isn't a great thing, nor that that seems to be what they're going for -- what I'm saying is that if you only get what you need in one place, it's incumbent on you to either make arrangements not to rock that boat too hard or make arrangements for your eventual ban. Don't make the staff do your emotional labor for you, it's not fair to either party.
and then argue 'go to the literal infinite internet where I will in fact literally say it is literally infinite, it definitely must automagically have a better website for you which must be feasible for you to find and also btw this is just refluffed touch grass, instead of Get Off Of My Internet it's
only get off of my website'
Edit: quick citation: 'internet is literally infinite;
1b) For the majority of posters there are other sites just as good as SV out there. If you haven't found one then either your needs are truly esoteric or you should keep looking. That's just flat true and I ain't gonna argue about it, it doesn't matter, the internet is infinite if you don't agree then please just skip this point it is the least important.
then uh yeah people seem justified in calling you out for a lack of empathy.
You've hardly evidenced against my initial point that you seem to want people to cease to exist for your convenience; your solution is not for them to comport themselves differently, but just Leave The Website.
Why haven't you left the website and found the Better One That Definitely Exists if this is actually an always true, always best answer? You're sure insistent it's the best answer for everyone else, and yet strangely the firm advocate for that fact... hasn't... taken his own advice...
Leaving one to wonder why, and the most obvious possible answer is that you just want people who are currently inconvenient to you to conveniently cease to exist, and so by claiming it's for their own good to go to other websites hoping you can get them all to leave...
to get the site to better accommodate you personally, because they had the gall to hope the site could better accommodate them personally. Hmm.
There seems to be a hole in your world view somewhere.