The "philofocal" system as opposed to matrifocality, etc

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Hey guys! I'm new to Sufficient Velocity, so I apologize if I posted in the wrong forum.

I've been thinking about a type of alternative "family" system as opposed to say, matrifocality or patriarchical systems. To summarize: "What if the concept, that friends are your true family, developed into an actual kinship system among hunter-gatherers settling down, i.e. transitioning from agriculture?"

Now, we're aware of course, that "Friends are your family" is a very recent invention. It has its origins in the deterioration of the nuclear family in the United States, and certainly it's not a dominant kinship system at all; now with that out of the way, I'd like to explain how I ended up at such a system for my fictional culture:

First off, let us start with some background. I'm currently working on a Green Antarctica inspired TL. It's name is "Oops! All Blue Antarctica!" - I might crosspost from alternatehistory.com here, at some point. The mission is try to tend towards on the realistic side, and even veer into the opposite in certain, but major areas. If you don't know what Green Antarctica is: it's an excellently entertaining ASB on alternatehistory.com about: "what if Antarctica was warm and ice-free? Would humans settle? How would society develop?"

(Note: The following 1,500 words, are well, lengthy, so if you want to skip - scroll down to the next part in bold.)

What do I mean by opposite? As many people have thought, in replies in the Green Antarctica thread - would the Antarcticans really be that depraved and horrible? It seems like it goes against history, that in extreme conditions and times of hardship, people actually work together. They don't just start killing each other off. What if the first Antarctic states were actually socialist and friendly, compared to the traumatizing secret societies of the Yag? Where all Antarcticans are brothers and they work for the greater good, rather than driving a knife into each other's backs and [REDACTED] each other's corpses?

I think that there is a degree of truth to both perspectives. Certainly people worked together, but it would be remiss to not say that people did not take advantage of each other, that they did not steal. In the Bronze Age Collapse, there was a lot of war. We'd be also contradicting history if we didn't say that there were any wars.

You may be asking, "but what's that got to do with your philofocal system?". My ultimate goal is to nudge the Antarcticans, at least some of them, into eventually ending up with a socialistic system. Now, I don't think the final system will be that socialist. It may resemble it on the surface, but when you look inside - there may be a whole lot of coercion - like the Tawatinsuyu. I'd be happy if I ended up with a system like the Tawatinsuyu.

So, let's think about the first hunter gatherers settling in Antarctica. In the climate map I've worked out so far, the first areas they will be inhabiting, will be large islands covered in a Valdivian-type rainy forest, with an oceanic climate more akin to Reykjavik at Iceland. Once they've got past the initial challenges (such as a six month long night-winter), the environment will be bountiful enough to support very high population densities for hunter-gatherers wanting to settle (but not enough to support anything like, for example, Catalhoyuk or Cucuteni-Trypilia).

Our first hunter gatherers will come from the proto-Yahgan population living in Tierra del Fuego. According to my research, it appears that the Yahgan are of the "composite band" variety. I'm not clear on what composite band actually means. It seems to indicate that they could be arranged into many different structures, such as a tribe, or a small, mobile hunter-gatherer band (as is typical of the San), differing over geography and shifting as their conditions change and they adapt. Which is perfect. You need that flexibility to settle a harsh land like Antarctica.

The largest and most extreme settlements in the first 2000 years will be no bigger than a Haida village with at most 1500 people in its peak, with the structure resembling a nuraghe. So far, not very deviant. Many of these settlements will collapse after a century or a few. One or way another, I expect that these will soon form tribes with strong descent/affinal kinship systems. These tribes will then engage in sporadic warfare against each other over many centuries, contributing to the collapse of the aforementioned settlements.

Meanwhile, the more mobile populations living outside of the villages and in correspondingly traditional lifestyles, will be driven out by this intertribal warfare. I must stress that the tribes are only sedentary in a relative, a comparative sense. The mobile populations will be pioneers, being the first to explore other islands and soon landing on the vast, contiguous landmass of East Antarctica. With their expulsion and constant retreat from the more warlike tribes, they react culturally - and develop norms that weaken any form of descent/affine kinship their system may have had.

According to what I've read, by David Graeber and David Wengrow - it appears that many of the hunter gatherer bands we've encountered in Africa, seem to have more "fictive" of a kinship system than we originally thought. A band could even have members that don't speak the same native language! Members that hail from lands many many hundreds of kilometers away!

This seems like a good prototype for these mobile Antarctican hunter-gatherers. Let's call them the "Proto-Proto-Mana". The hunter gatherers living in tribes have also invaded East Antarctica, albeit on the opposite side. These, we shall call the "Proto-Proto-Yagna".

The PPY culture begins to settle down along a great river, in a hilly peninsula at the end of the Transantarctic Mountains. They develop agriculture in short order - after 3000 years since humans started living in Antarctica. Since they're familiar and tribal, they develop like a typical dawn civilization, and eventually form typical citystates and cities proper. Animal domestication comes in short order. The copper age is on the horizon.

The PPM settle down in a colder, and vastly more flat area akin to a Siberian plain with a humid continental climate. Subarctic taiga surrounds them, but they have access to a river, a river that could give the Nile a run for its money. They settle down much much later than the Proto-Proto-Yagna, and they'll be directly transitioning from small bands to living in great settlements comparable to the Cucuteni-Trypilia, though, of course, in either underground or nuraghic-type complexes.

Then volcanoes erupt, and the entire continent is plunged into darkness. A Year without a Summer. Droughts, frosts and so on devastate the respective civilizations, and for the Proto-Proto-Yagna much worse - since they live closer to the volcanoes. Maybe the volcanoes even rain debris down on villages, flattening houses. Civilization collapses.

I won't talk about the Proto-Proto-Yagna further. They're meant to be a corollary to the Proto-Proto-Mana, less of an experiment in anthropology, although they have Tsalal-like elements. Nevertheless, they're not comparatively more "evil" than other cultures, like in former New Guinea and the Pacific Northwest. They practice cannibalism, human sacrifice. The Antarctic environment is too harsh for slavery however, so indenture takes on a more feudalistic form. Entire tribes may be consigned to tenant farming after losing wars.

Human sacrifice may even apply to the "less evil" Proto-Proto-Mana too; certainly, both of them will practice infanticide.

Enough about all of that dreary stuff. After a long-winded background, it's time to talk about socialism, and philofocal system once and for all.

The first civilization of the PPM, before the collapse - I would say, is comparable to the Indus Valley one, the Harappan cultures. We know that these civilizations were at least, relatively egalitarian. Every house apparently had access to plumbing, and modern-like amenities. But these houses could just as easily be for mere artisans, traders. Not farmers. Were they an egalitarian utopia? We don't know, and it could easily be that the relative material inequality we see, were part of giant works, projects enacted by otherwise tyrannical-ish, governments to win the favor of the public. Now, I'd say - even that, already implies less inequality. If the underclass(?) is strong enough to demand plumbing for every house, then it would seem that they held outsized influence compared to say, Europe in the Middle Ages.

There's of course, Teotihuacán. If we can conceive of socialistic civilizations, and surely they could carry out complex projects - it might be possible that Teotihuacán had an incredibly egalitarian system with no powerful despot to speak of, and that they constructed their Pyramids of the Sun and the Moon entirely out of democratic volition. Or further, could it be possible that they later abandoned a stratified society, and the palaces later let in commoners? There are many who say Teotihuacán had a coercive system, and there are many who persuasively argue for the opposite.

Okay, on to the Proto-Proto-Mana themselves. Their first civilization will last perhaps 700 years, and I've decided that they'll be in a transitionary sort of state when it comes to kinship. One or way another, even if we don't know the exact mechanism, sedentary societies end up with descent/affine kinship. Tribalism. The first households may have been matrifocal. There were likely hunter-gatherers coming in all from over the area, and their customs against such kinship will persist, but continue to weaken. The conflict may take on a maternal/band dichotomy. Blood brothers against brood mothers.

It's been a long time since they encountered any actual warlike tribes. 1,700 years in fact, when they do collapse. And we know that the Proto-Proto-Mana are of the composite band variety, so sometimes we might even end up with tribes anyway - and certainly, they won't be warlike enough to prove the point of the anti-tribals.

The real question is, would their customs against such kinship still persist in all that time? Probably. A lot of religions are more than 1,700 years old.

When the Proto-Proto-Mana collapse, could we see a conservative backlash? The cities are likely to be torn apart by looting, by war, and so on as we saw in the Bronze Age Collapse. Even if the bandsmen themselves don't actually end up being the major driving force of cooperation, we only need society at large to think that they were. They may convince the Proto-Proto-Mana, that they were responsible for their salvation. They may blame the families, the mothers, for suffocating them with their blathering about "Nothing stronger than family". Oh, hue and cry! Some babies are born with an umbilical cord wrapped around their neck, did you know that? That's the world saying to us, here, this is the proof, that mothers suffocate.

Let's say that the backlash succeeds. No more tribalism. We'll all be brothers and sisters once and for all.

What will the philofocal system end up being like?

First, we have a typical group of friends, and let's say that some of the members are in couples. One way or another, they have kids. They raise the kids, until they reach adulthood. Say, like, ten, thirteen, sixteen? The age is sort of arbitrary (though I'd be pleasantly surprised if you guys know of any correlations/relationships). Once you're considered a man (or a woman), the elders take you away from your mother and father. They won't actually need to - you've been told over and over again, that to be a man/woman, you must leave the bird's nest. You must spread your wings.

You won't be completely alone. In fact, while your parents did some raising, you usually went to a nursery, or a room where the entire village raises their kids, during the winters. In the city, many such rooms for many neighborhoods. The people you grew up with in the communal childcare system, are your blood brothers. They're your friends. You all decide to get together and move out elsewhere. In the summer, you work the fields together, fishing, or you may go hunting, and so on.

This is the "Proto-Mana" kinship system. Later, as certain fellows start finding strange orange rocks and shiny yellow rocks, these friend-bands may even go out to work in copper and gold mining colonies, up the river and across the bay where their Nile-like delta is located.

What say you guys? Is it a plausible system? It's 90% conjecture, but well, so is most of alternate history anyway - can't escape it. I'd love to hear from an anthropologist, an archaeologist, or a historian - any expert really on this; I'd say it seems logical enough, but we have to examine our assumptions.

Are my assumptions about the first civilizations wrong? Was Teotihuacán's egalitarianism really just the talk of cranks? Did we have more evidence for the Indus Valley civilization being... more coercive? Am I painting a misleading picture of the consensus? Am I wrong that grand-scale public works projects don't have the social significance in the way that I thought? Are there any alternate theories as to what they were like? Were David Graeber's claims of fictive-like kinship among some African hunter-gatherer bands, misleading and inaccurate? Was I right about composite hunter-gatherer bands? Please, tell me what you think.

Thank you for reading all the way - and answering my many questions; I hope you enjoyed, it at least!
 
Adding some citations to further the discussion:

Our first hunter gatherers will come from the proto-Yahgan population living in Tierra del Fuego. According to my research, it appears that the Yahgan are of the "composite band" variety. I'm not clear on what composite band actually means. It seems to indicate that they could be arranged into many different structures, such as a tribe, or a small, mobile hunter-gatherer band (as is typical of the San), differing over geography and shifting as their conditions change and they adapt. Which is perfect. You need that flexibility to settle a harsh land like Antarctica.


Although Steward's typology is long long obsolete, I would say that there is enough merit to the idea of a composite band that it's worth keeping as an archetype for our proto-Yahgan.

According to what I've read, by David Graeber and David Wengrow - it appears that many of the hunter gatherer bands we've encountered in Africa, seem to have more "fictive" of a kinship system than we originally thought. A band could even have members that don't speak the same native language! Members that hail from lands many many hundreds of kilometers away!


I found this article which supports the claim as well, but it turns out they already cited this too!

The first civilization of the PPM, before the collapse - I would say, is comparable to the Indus Valley one, the Harappan cultures. We know that these civilizations were at least, relatively egalitarian. Every house apparently had access to plumbing, and modern-like amenities.


There's of course, Teotihuacán. If we can conceive of socialistic civilizations, and surely they could carry out complex projects - it might be possible that Teotihuacán had an incredibly egalitarian system with no powerful despot to speak of, and that they constructed their Pyramids of the Sun and the Moon entirely out of democratic volition. Or further, could it be possible that they later abandoned a stratified society, and the palaces later let in commoners? There are many who say Teotihuacán had a coercive system, and there are many who persuasively argue for the opposite.

learningenglish.voanews.com

Ancient Painting Suggests Societal Equality in Teotihuacan

Each year, millions of travelers visit the huge pyramids and other structures that made up the city of Teotihuacan, about 48 kilometers north of present-day Mexico City. The newly discovered art was found on the city’s southern edge, far from the center and far from where visitors explore today.
slate.com

In This Ancient City, Even Commoners Lived in Palaces

Archaeologists once assumed Teotihuacán was the work of a powerful despotic king. Now, most see something more extraordinary.

I do have to note here though, they use a Gini coefficient to measure the degree of equality. Which is freaking stupid in my opinion. But even so, the claim that Teotihuacan, was relatively egalitarian - is a claim that I think is not so easily dismissible.

Okay, on to the Proto-Proto-Mana themselves. [...] The first households may have been matrifocal.

Matrifocality is generally not a common thing nowadays. I don't think there's a consensus as to the exact origin of matrifocality, but there are plenty of sociological studies on matrifocality. Early human kinship may indeed, have been matrilineal as Engels&Morgan had hypothesized (and I will admit I take significant influence from them). The hypothesis that herd ownership and inheritance leads to the destruction of matrilineality, has since been vindicated by David Aberle's 1961 study on this. You can find it at "Matrilineal Kinship", the very last chapter.

If you know of any alternative hypotheses for the origin of matrifocal/matrilineal systems, please let me know. Between "all early human kinship was matrilineal" to the statistical dice-rolling of contemporary (i.e. current) anthropology, with all the problems that contemporariness entails - it does not appear impossible to posit that the Proto-Proto-Mana are initially matrifocal, especially given that they lack domesticated animals, especially large domesticates - at this stage.
 
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In terms of "locality", note how common are neolocal families. Where young couples are expected to establish a new household separate from either spouse´s parents, and often young unmarried adults also live in separate households alone.
This is common for hunter-gatherers as well as industrial societies, providing for high mobility, and also present in some farming societies.

I understand that "philofocal" society, looking specifically at "local" part, is one where people move out of the birth group and join a group of unrelated individuals not limited to spouse and spouse´s birth family?
 
This reminds me of a species I came up with for my own sci fi. They're an attempt at imagining what a more bonobo-like version of humans might be like. The functions that in our society are performed by the nuclear family are, in their society, usually performed by group homes, clubs, worker cooperatives, friend groups, etc.. These organizations have varying degrees of being (matrilineal) kinship-centered vs. friendship-centered (in their present society primarily friendship-centered is more common in cities and primarily kinship-centered is more common in rural areas, but I think their hunter-gatherers might tend to be more friendship-centered than their farmers too).

According to what I've read, by David Graeber and David Wengrow - it appears that many of the hunter gatherer bands we've encountered in Africa, seem to have more "fictive" of a kinship system than we originally thought. A band could even have members that don't speak the same native language! Members that hail from lands many many hundreds of kilometers away!
Yeah, I just saw something being passed around the internet that reminded me of this:

There is an obvious objection to evolutionary models which assume that our strongest social ties are based on close biological kinship: many humans just don't like their families very much. And this appears to be just as true of present- day hunter-gatherers as anybody else. Many seem to find the prospect of living their entire lives surrounded by close relatives so unpleasant that they will travel very long distances just to get away from them. New work on the demography of modern hunter-gatherers — drawing statistical comparisons from a global sample of cases, ranging from the Hadza in Tanzania to the Australian Martu? — shows that residential groups turn out not to be made up of biological kin at all; and the burgeoning field of human genomics is beginning to suggest a similar picture for ancient hunter-gatherers as well, all the way back to the Pleistocene.

While modern Martu, for instance, might speak of themselves as if they were all descended from some common totemic ancestor, it turns out that primary biological kin actually make up less than 10 per cent of the total membership of any given residential group. Most participants are drawn from a much wider pool who do not share close genetic relationships, whose origins are scattered over very large territories, and who may not even have grown up speaking the same languages. Anyone recognized to be Martu is a potential member of any Martu band, and the same turns out to be true of the Hadza, BaYaka, !Kung San, and so on. The truly adventurous, meanwhile, can often contrive to abandon their own larger group entirely. This is all the more surprising in places like Australia, where there tend to be very elaborate kinship systems in which almost all social arrangements are ostensibly organized around genealogical descent from totemic ancestors.

It would seem, then, that kinship in such cases is really a kind of metaphor for social attachments, in much the same way we'd say 'all men are brothers' when trying to express internationalism (even if we can't stand our actual brother and haven't spoken to him for years). What's more, the shared metaphor often extended over very long distances, as we've seen with the way that Turtle or Bear clans once existed across North America, or moiety systems across Australia. This made it a relatively simple matter for anyone disenchanted with their immediate biological kin to travel very long distances and still find a welcome.
I think it's from Graeber and Wengrow, yeah.

If you think about it, small scattered bands at low population density would be very vulnerable to inbreeding if everyone stayed with their natal kin group, so it makes sense that in a society like that a lot of people would change bands at least once in their lives.
 
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If you think about it, small scattered bands at low population density would be very vulnerable to inbreeding if everyone stayed with their natal kin group, so it makes sense that in a society like that a lot of people would change bands at least once in their lives.
Strictly speaking, for inbreeding avoidance it would be enough for just one sex (either of them) to leave the natal band consistently. This still needs provision to allow the other sex to leave bands as well, either to replenish bands that by chance run short of that sex or found new bands.

The interesting part here is that many hunter-gatherer bands actually are ready to accept unrelated members of both sexes and acknowledge them as fictional extended-kin relatives, rather than a) reject them altogether or b) accept them but as something expressly else than a relative.
 
I think by far and large the biggest problem with the philofocal system, or at least with the way I've constructed it in this scenario - is the separation in time from when they first experienced the violence of tribalism, and to the time they begin to construct complex city-states with the potential for stratification.

A more plausible scenario would be for play-farming hunter-gatherers to be driven out by tribalism in the same way I've described, and then once they've settled somewhere nice - set up civilization. All within a few centuries' time, rather than 1,700 years.

This way, it's more likely for them to set up a philofocal system, rather than developing a system that's an outgrowth of their band kinship system - eventually becoming clans, or houses - as society stratifies.
 
Focality is all about family life, and I'm not sure a collection of friends is the most sensible option for conceiving and raising multiple generations of people. Something that is similar that could work better is some type of "Free Love" society where there is no marriage. Instead, any adult can have sex with any other willing adult, and all children born in the tribe or community are raised by everyone. A more modern version is that the mother raises her kids until the age of 4, then the kids are sent to boarding school and only see their mothers a few times a year. In this type of society, male teachers would be the "father figure" role.
 
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Focality is all about family life, and I'm not sure a collection of friends is the most sensible option for concieving and raising multiple generatoins of people.
"Patrilocality" as opposed to "neolocality" means that a young married couple and their children live in fairly close domestic proximity to, and dependence from, the groom´s living father and mother, who for the bride are father-in-law and mother-in-law, as well as the groom´s unmarried siblings of both sexes, groom´s married brethren and their wives and children.
When a young married couple and their children live with a landlord unrelated to either spouse, his wife/wives and children and other couples in the same position, how close does the domestic proximity and dependence have to be in order to qualify it as "[...]focal"?
 
Focality is all about family life, and I'm not sure a collection of friends is the most sensible option for conceiving and raising multiple generations of people. Something that is similar that could work better is some type of "Free Love" society where there is no marriage. Instead, any adult can have sex with any other willing adult, and all children born in the tribe or community are raised by everyone.

Honestly, this is not too different from what I conceived the philofocal system as, except that I assumed most would enter into monogamous couples. In any case, free love is going to be more common for sure. In my first post, I did mention that the children would be raised communally.

A more modern version is that the mother raises her kids until the age of 4, then the kids are sent to boarding school and only see their mothers a few times a year. In this type of society, male teachers would be the "father figure" role.

That sounds incredibly repressive, like your typical British childhood lol . It seems neither modern nor particularly good for the development of the child, and it doesn't follow as a "more modern" version of your free love proposal.

"Patrilocality" as opposed to "neolocality" means that a young married couple and their children live in fairly close domestic proximity to, and dependence from, the groom´s living father and mother, who for the bride are father-in-law and mother-in-law, as well as the groom´s unmarried siblings of both sexes, groom´s married brethren and their wives and children.
When a young married couple and their children live with a landlord unrelated to either spouse, his wife/wives and children and other couples in the same position, how close does the domestic proximity and dependence have to be in order to qualify it as "[...]focal"?

If archaeologists dug up an apartment building from the 21st century, I wonder what kind of explanations they'd come up with. That's to say, the archaeological record of people living together is actually rather poor, insofar as the indicators we use to tell about the particular nature of their relations (whether the relationship was matri-, patri-, clan, house, tribal, familial, neolocal, and so on) aren't actually good enough - there's still too much uncertainty. Like, would it be obvious from the arrangement and the skeleton of the landlord, that he was a landlord?

If you meant to make that point, it was a good one.
 
It is certainly always a fun thought experiment to imagine different sorts of familial/social relationships. I could see a society where there a multiple different accepted types of "family" (Blood relations, "Chosen" family, and those you're romantically involved in, for instance). I'd think that any predominantly philofocal system will have a much less strict "official" definition of family/kin then, say, ours. I'll admit this is my first time seeing the terms "matri/patrafocality", let alone philfocoal. I'd be interested in any recommended readings on the topic.
 
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