[X] Greet her as the Stranger. Not the most normal greeting, but you want to be able to multitask. Also, you want to see if her Nature resonate with yours, how will she react to one of the vessel closest to your true being?
[X] Greet her as the Damsel. Warmly and with enthusiasm. Make her feel at home. You will be able to ask her about what links you at one moment or another, you are sure.
[X] Greet her as the Thorn. You think you may need the ability to smell trouble and plot she possess. Ironwood has to have seen how familiar you looked when you met him, why didn't he react?
[X] Greet her as yourself.
-[X] Begin by trying to learn a little about her first, her Semblance, for example. What is it about it that makes her such a bad fit for Atlas?