[X] Prepare to make a shroud-transition when the missiles go terminal, forcing them to lose lock. If the adversary was fully aware of your capabilities, they might have held off, used a different attack pattern, or retreated. Your analysis concludes that continued attack suggests an intelligence failure, although with your currently limited capabilities you cannot speculate as to what type.
[X] The enemy has given you an attack surface by interfacing themselves with you. You can smell the traces of the infoweapon rippling through the processing elements of the underlying quantum foam, see the fading echoes of temporary network connections necessary to implant the spike. You can feel the violating caress of fire control targeting and grab the tendrils of tachyon radiation and superluminal connection to turn against the foe. It is not a difficult task to use those connections to your own advantage, sliding a fire-control scrambling attack deep into the tangle of the enemy's fire control networks.
[X] Regroup your drone wings and use them to shoot down or spoof the incoming onslaught. Many of the controlling minds are in the state you are, but that is irrelevant - you do not need their consciousness, merely their capabilities. Stripped of self and language, they can still fight. You vector interceptors and heavy fighters on intercept coordinates against evading missiles, while some infowarfare drones drop stealth and reconfigure their emitters/receivers to become illusory echoes of your AV rather than sensors and command platforms.
[X] Counter-launch. Your AV is a weapons platform, through and through. You have the deep arsenals and the fire control software to shoot down long-range missiles with your own. Leakers will be dealt with by your defensive grid - the SWACS drones you've deployed that haven't been spotted or hit are warily watching the incoming vampires, and your subminds and remaining crew are already readying the tachyon lances and disruptors for last-second intercepts.
[X] Push through the enemy offensive barrage while deploying defensive drones. You have so many redundancies and backups that you can take what they're dishing out, and staying here and trading shots is the worst possible place you can be.