[X] "Lord Jonos, the idea for the match was Lady Catelyn's, if not the intent to gain further influence and power by it as Lord Blackwood might assume, and Hoster isn't the sort to come up with this kind of idea. You can take one look in his face and anyone witnessing the apology would be able to attest the same, but laugh at him they would just the same, and all Tytos Blackwood would hear is that laughter years afterward. A private apology, for not thinking things through, for contributing his own part in the folly of youth, that can easily be arranged, if he was not willing to face you directly, maybe weather a spot of reaming over the mess, this wouldn't hold any chance of success. But if we are counting slights right up until the end of this... that slight is going to be the only thing either side remembers." Look at him pointedly. Lord Hoster's mockery is near enough to being Lady Catelyn's mockery. This is just shooting oneself in the foot, as far as it goes.