[X] Plan Open Cards
-[X] Tell him that you need his aid in making sure that the North doesn't waste it's strength before the Long Night comes. You will take Westeros from the Ursuper, one way or another, but there is no reason for Northmen to bleed for the failing Baratheon-Lannister regime.
-[X] In concrete terms, you would ask for his aid in preventing Ned Stark from siding with the Ursuper in the war of man and instead prepare for the war of winter. You are fully aware that this will likely be difficult, if not impossible, but even a slim chance of success should be taken.
-[X] Other then that, his opinion on the other Lords of the North would be appreciated.
-[X] If he asks about what you plan for the North: If the Starks stay neutral, they will loose some prestige and power, but nothing more. New lords will be raised to rule as their equals over the different regions of the North. Should they march along the Lions and the Stags, the price will have to be greater and many good men will loose their lives for nothing in the fighting.