[X] "I could also call it compassionate that you would be willing to bear your grief alone to not mar the happiness your daughter found. But it is not as simple, isn't it?"
-[X] "I will not judge you either way, no matter your choice in this, for it is you who has to live with it. If you wish for forgiveness, it is not me you should ask for it. I don't peddle false reassurance, but I could have a message passed to her. It is not a gift that I possess to do so on my own, but it is something I can ask for at a Heart Tree."
-[X] After you are done here, go to a Heart Tree and contact Bloodraven to explain the situation. It would be good if he could take over from here, since this seems to involve his own plots. Alternatively, we would like to borrow Dalla's services to further along Graftons conversion.
-[X] If it comes up in this context that he heard about blood sacrifices, tell him on the matter: "The Old Gods don't demand such things, though neither will they reject what is freely offered to them in supplication. It is our choice and ours alone what we are willing to give the gods in return for their boons."
[X] "I have met some wayward daughters in my travels, and since she seems better than most, i would not call it cowardice to allow her to make her own life, but i sense that in allowing her that happiness, you would be denying her and yourself a much needed forgiveness and the comfort than only kin can give."
-[X] "Unfortunately that same happiness only makes a reconciliation harder, do not push hard my lord, i could try to contact her, but i would advise you to allow her her own pace, admit you did wrong, and that you care for her and wish her the best, that your hall is always open for her and that you will never again force her to your will."
-[X] Ask him to allow you to travel to a Godswood to send the message to her, leave and contact bloodraven (sacrifice needed?) let him know of the developments, and ask for his guidance and how it relates to his own plots, you have a chance to turn the Graftons to the service of the Old Gods.
[X] Offer to attempt to contact his daughter and invite her to visit, suggesting that he might take this Old God's granted opportunity as a chance to reconcile with her.
-[X] If he accepts, and Alyssa proves willing, ask Dany to continue manipulating Grafton's dreams, including an underlying suggestion that he name Alyssa as his heir.