[X] "I have met some wayward daughters in my travels, and since she seems better than most, i would not call it cowardice to allow her to make her own life, but i sense that in allowing her that happiness, you would be denying her and yourself a much needed forgiveness and the comfort than only kin can give."
-[X] "Unfortunately that same happiness only makes a reconciliation harder, do not push hard my lord, i could try to contact her, but i would advise you to allow her her own pace, admit you did wrong, and that you care for her and wish her the best, that your hall is always open for her and that you will never again force her to your will."
-[X] Ask him to allow you to travel to a Godswood to send the message to her, leave and contact bloodraven (sacrifice needed?) let him know of the developments, and ask for his guidance and how it relates to his own plots, you have a chance to turn the Graftons to the service of the Old Gods.
[X] Offer to attempt to contact his daughter and invite her to visit, suggesting that he might take this Old God's granted opportunity as a chance to reconcile with her.
-[X] If he accepts, and Alyssa proves willing, ask Dany to continue manipulating Grafton's dreams, including an underlying suggestion that he name Alyssa as his heir.