Doubtful. We were blindly transparent about our motives and what we prioritized, and they did not even try to talk us around, or do anything to convince us we could cooperate. They were just waiting until they had sufficient leverage over us to force us to agree to all of their demands.
When they denied our first offer out of hand, our immediate response wasn't "kill them all" it was "stop them from Mind Controlling the Reach and maybe the whole continent".
When that proved untenable, we escalated... all while they did nothing except when our finger was on the trigger.
They got what the deserved.