tbh -- in large part because I don't really know anything about VTM so all I'm going off of here is what's in the text and conversations about it -- the part that's most interesting about the elysium vote for me isn't really related to whether or not it's worth angering the Prince to have backup. i think that a rather significant part of Leila probably still
expects Strider to go along with what she suggested, no matter that she's not lying that she's letting Strider choose. whether or not going against that expectation is a good thing in terms of Leila and Strider's relationship is harder to say, though.
my current read on Leila is that she does actually
want Strider to be more of a peer (although still lesser than her, which will be fun when it becomes clearer what Strider is lol) and that's a significant part of why she's so upset about her being weird and not having normal feeding abilities. she's willingly giving Strider autonomy, but she's also a bit uncomfortable with it, and it would be the second time on Strider's
first night that she was turned that she's breaking their normal dynamic (the other being when she interrupted Leila about her name) if she doesn't follow what Leila wants.
i'm leaning towards voting to go to elysium first thing because i think that pushing Leila into being more conflicted about that before she's aware of how strong Strider is(/will be) could be fun, and i think that going to the other Anarchs will more strongly tie Strider to them as a group personally rather than through Leila, which could be interesting but i have no idea what the Anarchs are like as a group, and we haven't actually met the specific characters, so I'm Leilamaxxing until something more interesting is introduced in-text
for the other vote, if we vote to have already told Trish about vampires and such, that could also rather significantly impact Leila and Strider's relationship -- it would either imply that Leila was willing to let Strider tell her friend despite it being against the rules, or Strider is keeping it a secret from Leila, both of which has implications -- so i'm leaning towards voting that way. (also i prefer it because it's a lot simpler to give her meaningful involvement into where Strider's character goes and i often find the masquerade annoying in urban fantasy anyway)