[X] "Let's see her on the way back home, then!"
To understand a person's character, you need to look at him at home. There is no need to look at dozens of secular masks if you can go once and look at the true essence.
Also, if we want to marry a foreign princess, this visit will not hurt, if we marry someone else from the locals, then probably too.
(+Sapegas, this is quite unintuitive, but a good choice. They are Rusyns and Orthodox (?). A good choice for ensuring stability in our lands)
[X] Positive, but the "friend" will owe us 1 service, within reason.
Friends respect each other's opinions and are guided by them in making decisions. We (we personally, not the family) really need friends. Only this particular friend is not very respectful. Let him prove that for the sake of "friendship" he is ready to make some sacrifices.